YOU ARE SO VALUABLE………

Let me take you through a beautiful thought

If your heart hurts, be thankful

At least you know that you will not inflict pain on others because you know how it feels.

You know that you will not love yourself if it means hurting someone else.

You know that you will not break someone else's back just to get to your destination.

If your heart hurts,

Love it back to peace - Najwa Zebian

What defines who you are? When you care about someone, you feel that you care too much and when you love, you drown them in your love. Could you please take a step back and remind yourself that what you give is an indication of what you own. So if you give too much of anything that really and truly comes from somewhere within you. The same is with love. If you love too sincerely, that love comes from somewhere within you. And this is what is defining you and your worth. Regardless of knowing that you might not get anything in return which is ultimately a sad truth. But a good soul with a clear heart doesn’t get offended by this. It was all by their willing heart, not to impress nor showcase it to the world.

What is more sensible and will raise up your standards? What if some has a disrespectful view about you? I would certainly not own a same view and be unkind to him/her. Why would you step down to a level where you do not belong to what so ever.

Never give up on what has once defined you. Whether it is love, respect, attention or understanding. If the other person is not giving you anything in return then it is certainly their problem. And this is in light of situations I have been through .

Sometimes your heart may hurt just because the other person has not come up to your expectations. But that is essentially not something to be heart broken about. You have been setting up standards and drawing up lines the other person is not even aware of. May it be the silliest of expectation you have kept.

The point everyone needs to be aware of and accept is do not love anybody for them to love you back with the same passion. Do not do good to them and expect them to do good to you. What you are doing whether it be loving or caring about someone is out of your own heart. And that is defining you.

It is okay if he/she doesn’t wants to open up. We do not know what he is going through. What it feels like to be him/her. And it is not right to aggravate a fight on why he/she is not discussing their problem. Girls should understand and act more sensible to give guys their space in a relationship and so is the case with guys. Behaving sensibly and not losing your cool will let you lead your path smoothly and save upon valuable relations. Respecting others, their views, their comfort zones will ultimately build up a place for you in their hearts.

Ofcourse everyone has valuable relations in life. Who would like to loose them. Not you right? It doesn’t matter they do not recognize you or your heart. But someday they will. Sooner or later they will learn to recognize your worth. And even if they don’t then you certainly know what you got to do. It is nothing to be sad about if someone doesn’t recognize your worth. It is their loss for they don’t value you. Our value isn’t anytime going to be less just because someone has an inability to see it.

Don’t let someone who did you wrong make you think there’s something wrong with you. Don’t devalue yourself because they didn’t value you. Know your worth even if they don’t.