Let
me take you through a beautiful thought
If
your heart hurts, be thankful
At
least you know that you will not inflict pain on others because you know how it
feels.
You
know that you will not love yourself if it means hurting someone else.
You
know that you will not break someone else's back just to get to your
destination.
If
your heart hurts,
Love
it back to peace - Najwa Zebian
What
defines who you are? When you care about someone, you feel that you care too
much and when you love, you drown them in your love. Could you please take a
step back and remind yourself that what you give is an indication of what you
own. So if you give too much of anything that really and truly comes from
somewhere within you. The same is with love. If you love too sincerely, that
love comes from somewhere within you. And this is what is defining you and your
worth. Regardless of knowing that you might not get anything in return which is
ultimately a sad truth. But a good soul with a clear heart doesn’t get offended
by this. It was all by their willing heart, not to impress nor showcase it to
the world.
What
is more sensible and will raise up your standards? What if some has a
disrespectful view about you? I would certainly not own a same view and be
unkind to him/her. Why would you step down to a level where you do not belong
to what so ever.
Never
give up on what has once defined you. Whether it is love, respect, attention or
understanding. If the other person is not giving you anything in return then it
is certainly their problem. And this is in light of situations I have been through
.
Sometimes
your heart may hurt just because the other person has not come up to your
expectations. But that is essentially not something to be heart broken about. You
have been setting up standards and drawing up lines the other person is not
even aware of. May it be the silliest of expectation you have kept.
The
point everyone needs to be aware of and accept is do not love anybody for them
to love you back with the same passion. Do not do good to them and expect them
to do good to you. What you are doing whether it be loving or caring about
someone is out of your own heart. And that is defining you.
It
is okay if he/she doesn’t wants to open up. We do not know what he is going
through. What it feels like to be him/her. And it is not right to aggravate a
fight on why he/she is not discussing their problem. Girls should understand
and act more sensible to give guys their space in a relationship and so is the
case with guys. Behaving sensibly and not losing your cool will let you lead
your path smoothly and save upon valuable relations. Respecting others, their
views, their comfort zones will ultimately build up a place for you in their
hearts.
Ofcourse
everyone has valuable relations in life. Who would like to loose them. Not you
right? It doesn’t matter they do not recognize you or your heart. But someday
they will. Sooner or later they will learn to recognize your worth. And even if
they don’t then you certainly know what you got to do. It is nothing to be sad
about if someone doesn’t recognize your worth. It is their loss for they don’t value
you. Our value isn’t anytime going to be less just because someone has an
inability to see it.
Don’t
let someone who did you wrong make you think there’s something wrong with you. Don’t
devalue yourself because they didn’t value you. Know your worth even if they don’t.
